I think Grandparents are tremendously important. I don't want to keep them apart. I just feel that Dilara is a little too young. I also worry that she may not come back. This is going to be a problem, I think. I expect that I'll hold him off till the fall, when Dilara will be 3. I still think a month will be too long, and I think he should teach her at least "survival" Turkish so she can communicate her needs if he's not right there to translate.